to see to learn to remember

You will never truly know yourself, or the strength of your relationships,
until both have been tested by adversity.

The Fringe Benefits of Failure, and the Importance of Imagination
Harvard University Commencement Address
J.K. Rowling

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S.H: so that’s the silver lining in all of this :)
S.H: good one
hardshell: she's good huh
S.H: yea
hardshell: well when I first read it the last time it didn’t affect me as much
S.H: i feel like stealing tat
hardshell: lol... don’t you? I’m blogging that. But you know... while it’s true... it's so hard to see it when you’re in it
S.H: but it’s a good motivation to get you by
hardshell: it takes some time to be able to see, to understand the reason behind all of these and after everything… to remember
S.H: you only remember when the bad part's over
hardshell: uhuh… but well... the bad part's not over for me… well at least not yet. It’s so tough to be strong, so tough to be weak but it hurts all e same...
S.H: you'll get better babe. you know you will
hardshell: :O) thx

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My heart has started to ease a little since last night.
And I could breathe a little more.
Though there's still a lil tension in the pit of my heart

I know now I need to focus.
Focus on not breathing in the bitterness in the air.
Focus on not absorbing the negativity.
Focus on not feeling the hurt.
Focus on thinking objectively
All for the good of my heart.

Cos sometimes you really need to listen to your brain just so your heart can live on.



Listen to
Breaking My Heart by Aqualung